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There are mixed messages everywhere.

Work your ass off. But don't wait too long to have a baby.

Eat organic. Be frugal.

Take birth control. Birth control causes cancer.

Say what you feel. Keep your thoughts to yourself at work.

Sit still. Don't let life pass you by.

My gay friend who is in love but can't get married, and has no money or savings, and is a phenomonal musician has been talking to me about meditiation. He gets up every single day and meditates and he says it has changed the way the thinks about everything and keeps him sane. Gay people are smarter than straight people. I'm sure of it. I haven't done any research on this. Just a hunch.